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There is no easy way
out of this
You must grab your grief
 in your hands
and look it
        square in the eye
Then shake it
until all you don't need
        falls away
and what you are left with
is the part you will hold gently
        in your arms
and pull close to you
right next to the place
where your little one smiled.

Deborah Gemmill

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